Cuddles + Intimacy = Love Life, Live Life.
Are you allowing yourself to be loved and intimate with your loved one, friends and family?
Being intimate with someone is the most fulfilling thing you can experience, it’s totally free and it’s up to you to allow yourself to be loved, just for being you! You don’t necessary have to be in a relationship in order to find intimacy. It comes in many shapes and forms. It may be a cuddle, a conversion, a laugh, a kiss or more. You have different levels of intimacy with different people because we all connect in different ways.
Some people are afraid of showing affection, others do it in a more subtle way or some people are very open about it. It doesn’t really matter how you chose to express yourself as long as you do. I always try to live each day as if it’s my last (a bit morbid I know) and some days it’s easier then others. But my point is- I want all the people in my world to know that I love them and why I love them. That’s really important to me.
It is the easiest way to put a smile on your face and the biggest confidence booster! I often tell my partner if I’m upset about something and he will generally go silent and hide, not knowing what to say and I say to him “You don’t even have to SAY anything just give me a cuddle” are you with me sister :)
If you would like to read more about intimacy and how it saves lives go to Urban Smiler for a nice little pick me up.
NOW FOR TODAY’S TASK!
OK so this one may require you to step outside your comfort zone or put somethings aside for a moment. But it will be worth it when you see the difference it makes.
Kiss him now and surprise him later ;-)
For the Couples
• When you kiss him goodbye in the morning KISS him.
• Organize his favorite meal or a nice meal. Buy a beer he likes or a nice wine.
• When he gets home give him his drink, Relaxxxxxxxxxx
• Enjoy a wine together, have a laugh; we really need to do it more. (Laugh that is)
• Tell him to have a shower or do whatever he needs to. Then put the kids to bed or do whatever you need to.
• Once you have done that go and kiss him and you can take it from there!
Think of this as paying it forward! Don’t think too much into it. Just try to relax with it and have a good time and enjoy yourself.
Try not to think “He should be doing this to you or whatever else you may be thinking” Just relax with it and have a laugh.
For all the Singles ladies
Invite a friend you cherish, who is a positive influence in your life around have a chat and a nice meal. Relax and laugh until your belly hurts!
TOMORROW MORE WINNERS!!!