Thursday, October 29, 2009

Day 20- Do You Love Your Life?

Something I always have to remind myself of and try to inject into my life is the fact that we live in one world.

Are you caught up in your own little world?
Are you open to allowing yourself and others to share your world?

As much as we drift through our lives at different speeds and the currents take us in different directions, it is still important to love unconditionally sometimes that's easy and sometimes it hurts. But for all it hurts at least I can say that by allowing myself to love, I allow myself to live honestly and passionately.

I do not pretend and I WILL NOT pretend! Only I can change my life and how I choose to view things and people.
For me I have to learn that I can't help people unless they are willing to help themselves and then I can only guide them and encourage them.

I have learnt alot during this Challenge and I hope you guys have too.

The most valuable thing I have learnt in 2009 is-

"BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF, MAKE THE NECESSARY CHANGES AND AMAZING THINGS WILL HAPPEN!"

8 comments:

bell said...

Unconditional love...what a gift...the right of every child! It is allowing yourself to open your self up to being hurt but if you choose to love someone it's the only way. If you put conditions on your love or someone puts them on you get out! Straight away!
Great words Bra Queen be honest with yourself!
Live passionately what a way to live! Learnt heaps through the challenge thanks for your great effort too x

K.Line said...

You need to find the good - and recognize it - wherever it is.

Chantal Fleming said...

Love yourself, love your life.

Isn't it so easy to get caught up in your own little envelope? My challenge is to find the healthy medium between doing your own thing and giving to others.

Bra Queen said...

Thank you Bell! I am glad you have learn t alot from the Challenge and it is my absolute pleasure to bring it to you.

K.Line- I love that- once you find it RECOGNIZE it, sounds simple but alot people don't. Back to bras next week, I know you'll love those ;)

Chantal- Thank you for your contribution through out the Challenge I know alot of people would have loved your lovely words.
I find that if I give myself ME time that always gives me the energy to give to others, so I never feel drained. Well most of the time anyway :)

Marnie B said...

This post was meant for me today!!

Bra Queen said...

Oh good marnie! Isn't it great when that happens :)

flutterbye_77 said...

REMEMBER THT POST?? TO ERR IS BUT HUMAN BUT TO ADHERE TO IT ONCE RECOGNISED SHOWS GREAT AFFIRMATION OF CHARACTER!!!!!!!!!!! AND I DO I LOVE LOVE LOVE MY LIFE HOW COULD I NOT LOOK AT WHAT I HAVE ..4 BEAUTIFUL HEALTHY BOYS WHO LOVE ME UNCONDITIONALLY .. I DAILY ADHERE TO THE ERRS OF MY LIFE AND SHOW UNCONDITIONAL LOVE AND RESPECT I DONT ALWAYS GET IT RIGHT BUT I FORGIVE THT AND MOVE FORWARD WITH AN OPEN HEART... THANKU FOR UR SUPPORT EVERYONE AND ESP THE BRA QUEEN XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOX

Chantal Fleming said...

You're welcome BQueen - that was lovely of you to say. I've really enjoyed myself this month and am so glad that I followed the link over from Real Mums. Thanks for the opportunity and the lovely prizes!

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