Sunday, August 23, 2009

How to Choose and Fit a Mastectomy Bra



As you all know my great passion is to make women feel good and I truly believe that an instant pick me up is Lingerie. It makes my heart ache that sometimes people that the most need things (like a pick me up) are unable to get it. Like plus size women finding nice bras, larger cup size ladies OR women who have had a mastectomy. They have to search high and low just to find one.

I’m going to change that!

They go into a Bra Shop that is full of teeny boppers and have to ask about finding a mastectomy bra and the teeny boppers make these women who are vulnerable enough as it is, make them feel like they are from out of space.

One woman I spoke to went into Australia’s biggest Bra Shop to inquire about finding a mastectomy bra and she left in tears because she felt like a freak as the “Professional Fitter” (I use that term very loosely) looked at her in disgust.

So I thought I would shed some light for these beautiful, remarkable women.
The world of mastectomy bras and prostheses can be daunting for breast cancer survivors. Breast surgery is difficult enough let alone trying to shop for mastectomy bras and prosthetics. It shouldn't and needn't add any further angst.
Fortunately, today's mastectomy bras have come a long way and they come in most of the same styles and many of the same colors as regular bras. However it’s not always easy to find them.

So what do you do and where do you start?

Start by getting fitted with a mastectomy bra and a prosthesis as soon as healing is complete after surgery. (Approximately 6-8 weeks). Prosthetics are sometimes known as "breast forms," and are typically made of silicone gel inside a soft, flexible shell. They come in a vast array of cup sizes and shapes in order to match as closely as possible to the existing breast (in the case of single mastectomy patients.) Mastectomy prostheses generally come with a nipple.

You may prefer to have custom prostheses manufactured. This can help produce a breast form that more closely resembles the remaining breast in the case of a single mastectomy surgery. Customized forms are obviously much more expensive.
Mastectomy bras are designed with pockets inside the cups. The prosthesis slips snugly inside the pocket. Choose a bra that fits correctly. A properly fitted mastectomy bra will ensure that the breast form rests firmly against the chest and doesn't slip from side to side, up or down.

Single mastectomy patients should choose a breast form in the same cup size as the existing breast. The right prosthesis will fit closely to the chest without any gaps. You may need to try several different shapes to find the best fit.
Double mastectomy patients can choose any cup size when it comes to breast forms. Most women feel most comfortable choosing prostheses that are the same as her former cup size. However, it is possible to choose a smaller or larger cup size if preferred.

It's usually recommended in this case not to go more than one cup size larger or smaller. It's also recommended to choose a shape that is most similar to your own breasts and that they still complement your body shape. This will help you to make a more natural transition.
Mastectomy bra manufacturers may use different cup sizing charts from one another. Even different styles of bras made by the same manufacturer may have different sizing charts. So just make sure you read their size guide but it’s really no different to how all bras sometimes differ from shape to shape and brand to brand. You can read this to find out about bra shapes.

HOT TIP- The correctly fitted mastectomy bra should-
•Rest firmly against body but will not cut into the skin.
•It should not leave marks or indentations in the skin after removal.
•It will hold the mastectomy prosthesis firmly in place. In the case of a single mastectomy, it will appear undetectable from the remaining natural breast.
•Whether a client has had one or both breasts removed, the mastectomy bra should feel comfortable, and most of all, should look good and make her feel proud to be a breast cancer survivor.

Where to buy them in Australia?

Upon my research I have spoken to the inspirational Colleen of Colleen’s Post Mastectomy Connection and let me tell you she has been there so she knows actually how you are feeling. That is why she allows one hour to fit you for your mastectomy prosthesis and bra. She takes great pride in her work ONLY stocking mastectomy ranges like Swimwear, Lingerie, Nightwear even wigs and stylish headwear. How awesome is that!

Where is she? Canberra ACT. Yes I know she needs to be EVERYWHERE! But people travel interstate frequently to purchase her range. Colleen has the largest mastectomy collection in the southern hemisphere.
Like any “Professional Fitter” a lot of the time you still get incorrectly fitted. Once Colleen has correctly fit you she will happily send you any future purchasers because she is frequently getting new beautiful collections in. Visit her www.colleens.com.au

Did you know this! You can get up to $400 back! YAY….

The National External Breast Prostheses Reimbursement Program
The National External Breast Prostheses Reimbursement Program is a new Australian Government initiative to provide reimbursement of up to $400 for both new and replacement external breast prostheses to all eligible women who have had a mastectomy as a result of breast cancer. The $400 limit applies for each prosthesis for each breast.
The Australian Government’s reimbursement program will commence on 1 December 2008 with Medicare Australia administering the reimbursements. External breast prostheses purchased from 1 July 2008 will be eligible for reimbursement. Once a claim has been made, reimbursements for replacement prostheses can be claimed no earlier than two years from the date of purchase of the last prosthesis.
Medicare fact sheet (596kb pdf)
Women can access more information about the program, including eligibility criteria and claim form by:
•visiting the Medicare Australia website,
•contacting Medicare Australia on 132 011 (call charges may apply),
•visiting a Medicare Australia office.


If you don’t want to travel I recommend you visit www.advancedbreastcare.com.au they are a great Australian site it’s your “where to guide” that gives you ABC shop whereabouts in EVERY state.

Other sites you may wish to visit are
National Breast Cancer Foundation www.nbcf.org.au

McGrath Foundation www.mcgrathfoundation.com.au

Breast Health is where I received the delightful reimbursement info www.nbocc.org.au

Saturday, August 22, 2009

The Best Smooth Cup Bra?


I have currently been on an assignment for one of my readers.

This was my brief- I'm a 16E and I need a Smooth Bra to wear under a cream and black dress. With no requirements on straps or neckline so just a good shape, good lift and good support. She is going to a wedding so she'll be having a boogie and wouldn't want a Jennifer Hawkins moment!
Sounds easy right, WRONG!
I have looked, researched and tried over 20 bras!

From cheap ($20)to expensive ($130)there was just nothing! Tell me; Why is it that women with big boobs who need the support more then our smaller chested sisters don't have the most simple of bras?
OK let me rephrase that! It is available however some of them you may as well be wearing nothing because that is actually what it did. OR I had 4 boobs which of course I don't want. I can't handle the 2 I have so I don't need any more thank you!

The BEST one I found was my trusty friend Ultimo. Great lift, great support, so so comfortable and it's smooth. They are just celebrating their 10th birthday so HAPPY BIRTHDAY.

The white one would be the best suited however you may see it through the cream, maybe.

If so, go for the flesh color in the Plunge

Both at great value AU$69.95 at Alluring Lingerie

Disclaimer: The views, conclusions, findings and opinions of the author are those of the author and do not reflect the views of the product owners, producers and there affiliates.

Friday, August 21, 2009

Update on Love Your Life Challenge!

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Tuesday, August 18, 2009

BRA REVIEW-Simone Perele


Andora
Cost- $89.95
Lift- 6/10
Separation- 6/10
Quality- 6/10
Shape- 4/10
Material- 7/10
Appearance- 8/10

Bra Queen’s Comments- The cups cut across your breasts so you look like you have spillage when it’s actually the correct cup size. Giving you a double boob! Looked really good, promising the material is nice but sadly it stopped there.

Disclaimer: The views, conclusions, findings and opinions of the author are those of the author and do not reflect the views of the product owners, producers and there affiliates.

BRA REVIEW -Simone Perele


Avant
Cost- $89.95
Lift- 5/10
Separation- 6/10
Quality- 6/10
Shape- 4/10
Material- 7/10
Appearance- 5/10

Bra Queen’s Comments- I thought that Simone Perele was going to bring it home for me! But sadly NO, very disappointed, the material was nice but this bra squashes your boobs and I hate that. I am not trying to hide my G Cup boobs if I get a great shape it looks much better then trying to squash them under my arms!

Disclaimer: The views, conclusions, findings and opinions of the author are those of the author and do not reflect the views of the product owners, producers and there affiliates.

Monday, August 17, 2009

BRA REVIEW -Fayre Form


Charlotte- Available in White, Toffee and Black
Cost- $49.95
Lift- 5/10
Separation- 6/10
Quality- 4/10
Shape- 2/10
Material- 4/10
Appearance- 2/10

Bra Queen’s Comments- I read an article last week that was in the Herald Sun and it said that “Fayre Form has always been at the fore front of Larger Cup Size Bras.” Now this is were I strongly disagree! If you call poor quality and flimsy material at the fore front, then OK. Yes, they are the only company that catered for the bustier women for a long time, however I find Fayre Form bras pointy, ugly and a yucky shape. I am not the only expert in this field that shares this opinion, the owner of a successful Lingerie Store who stocks Fayre Form said to me “I never fit anyone for these bras, they are a terrible shape. I never have any luck with them” I did wonder why on earth she still stocked the entire range! But I’m not footing that bill so who am I to say anything!

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Friday, August 14, 2009

Bra Queen Speaks Out!



Action Speaks One Thousand Words!

One of the things I LOVE about well... being ME! I love the fact the I can give women advice, fit them, supply them with all the information they need. I'm not trying to "sell" them anything I am just me, just honest!

I love doing workshops with women and speaking at events. I love that you are sending me on challenges to find bras for you and today I was on the hunt for cotton knickers! Not any cotton knickers a pair that are great for major workouts! Sounds easy? Let me tell you it is sooo hard to find the most simple thing!
But I got there xxx


If you have a bra you would like me to find braqueen@gmail.com